The Most Common Form of Despair
“The most common form of despair is not being who you are.”
Are you familiar with your Not Self?
The Not Self is created by the undefined (i.e. white/not colored) spaces in your BodyGraph and collected by your Mind to become your conditioning. Your Not Self then fights to run your life by operating out of that conditioning and against what’s correct for you.
Your undefined spaces are wildly intoxicating because they are what you’re not. As a funny little trick from the Universe, you naturally gravitate toward what you don’t have. So when you don’t know who you are (i.e. your definition), you tend to give precedence to your undefined spaces … unconsciously, of course … and work against your defined spaces.
The good news is that not all white/undefined spaces are created equal. Some you won’t even notice.
The not-so-good news is that others can run your life…into the ground.
This is actually great news for you, coach! This is why clients seek your services!
Unbeknownst to them, they sign up for coaching to “fix” what isn’t working vs. embrace what’s already theirs. They’re stuck. They’ve allowed their Not Self to overpower their True Self because they don’t know any better.
This is where YOU make ALL the difference! Backed by their Human Design, you can show each client their True Self. You can shift the focus from trying to “fix” what isn’t theirs to empowering what is! And bringing awareness to how to manage it all.
It’s not about filling in your client’s blanks. It’s about helping them to:
See where those blanks show up
Understand how they influence their life
Create strategies for dealing with them
Take Action
If you haven’t already, get a FREE introduction to your (or a client’s) Bodygraph here. You’ll get a summary of your (their) True Self and Not Self.
That’s performance, reimagined.
